Chinese New Year can not find the feeling of childhood

2022-07-24 0 By

Today is the first day of Chinese New Year, at ten o ‘clock in the morning, my husband and daughter went out to pay a New Year’s visit to several Cousins and aunts, I took my son at home to eat snacks and watch TV.Husband just walk soon, the phone rang, I see is the husband’s sister-in-law call, a pick up the phone directly say: sister-in-law, happy New Year!Sister-in-law in the telephone that leng for two seconds, because I never say this kind of polite words, sister-in-law also said to me happy New Year, said her daughter yesterday in her that New Year’s day, now with children and her son together to my house to pay a New Year’s visit, asked me not at home?I told my sister-in-law that I was at home, waiting for my nieces and nephews to pay New Year’s greetings, and opened the door immediately.Hang up the phone, hurriedly open the security door, the fruit snacks on the table placed neatly, and put two chairs next to the fire table, afraid of people more sofa is not enough to sit.At the same time, I was thinking that people could not just eat snacks when the New Year came. Instead, I had to cook a few eggs. I immediately went to the kitchen and boiled ten eggs in a frying pan with cold water.After a while, two nieces and a nephew came with their children. The nephew had a son and a daughter, the eldest niece also had a son and a daughter, and a young niece was thirty years old and still not married. I did not give her a red envelope, so I took out 8 50 yuan from the room, and each child gave 100 yuan of lucky money.Children are very happy after receiving the red envelope, and then give the red envelope to their adults.I took out several cups, made several cups of chrysanthemum tea, also took several bottles of Heaven and Earth one for them to drink.He told them to wait a minute and brought out the eggs. They didn’t eat eggs.I sit and chat with them for a while day, husband and daughter came outside in the New Year, called the daughter gave them the word, nieces and nephews to see my husband and daughter didn’t place to sit, immediately stand up and say to go, still have some relatives go to happy New Year, I took a few to several children can of wang ji, call the husband went downstairs to send to send them.Friends and relatives come more, lively is very lively, is busy carrying tea pouring water no idle, people go and have to take care of the ground a little, after all, the New Year’s day can not let others wear shoes cover in.When I was a child, I looked forward to growing up day and night, but when I grew up and got married, I really missed the Spring Festival when I was a child.Because when I was young, every New Year is the happiest moment for children.Don’t have to do winter vacation homework, don’t have to do anything, just with adults to relatives and friends and receive red envelopes on the line, there are a lot of delicious snacks to eat.After eating a sumptuous lunch, can also play with a lot of children set off firecrackers, do not mention how happy!When I grew up, especially after marriage, I always felt that the Chinese New Year changed the taste, whether to go to relatives and friends home, to which relatives to pay a New Year’s visit, to mention some of the price of gifts, how many red envelopes for the children of relatives and friends, a little unsatisfactory, friends and relatives will say everywhere.Relatives and friends will also let their children visit our home, if I do not take good care of will also be said, and said for years.Remember in the first year of marriage, my father-in-law is still there, the husband’s cousin to give her father-in-law happy New Year, I made a few eggs, time to cook for half an hour, eggs boiled broke, I thought that is ripe, to a cousin to eat, he a break an egg, the egg is not ripe, cousin later told a lot of relatives outside because of his first trip to our house on the first day, New Year callThe eggs I cooked for him were undercooked, so he didn’t have the best of luck that year.Even now my children are teenagers, many relatives still laugh at me for not being able to cook eggs properly.The grew up the man, the more see through some things, always feel relatives are so return a responsibility, do not include all the relatives, of course, always some relatives: don’t think you poor, afraid you rich, poor, talks and relatives to look in the eyes is very strange, a little bit better than days, some relatives are also big early a few time to borrow money with us, it’s really speechless, so now I don’t like relatives.Feel between relatives and relatives too fake, no meaning.New Year’s Day, each stay in their own home is not good?Wouldn’t it be nice to spend more time with your family and children and have a fire together, eat snacks, watch TV and chat?Why do we have to visit relatives?Out New Year, you have to buy gifts, if more relatives, buy a gift at least buy dozens of boxes, is also a lot of money, go to the home of relatives, relatives have snacks, to prepare a cup of tea, boil some eggs, some relatives will prepare lunch, at least several dishes, big New Year’s day when BuDeXian also busy.Elders are usually not with the younger generation of the New Year, but will give all children a red envelope, red envelopes are typically 50 yuan to start now, some 50 yuan, some package of one hundred yuan, New Year’s day walk around each other between relatives, both sides have trouble, if you can, I don’t want to go to any relatives over, also don’t want any relatives to the New Year, our family everyone to stay in their own home, eat,The drink, enjoy the happiness of the family, if you must pay a New Year call, it is best not to buy things, say to each other: happy New Year!That’s enough. There’s no point in doing all that fancy stuff. There’s really no point in doing it…Do not know when to start, feel the Chinese New Year no longer had the feeling of childhood Chinese New Year, perhaps is less childhood innocence and carefree, perhaps because he grew up, the more grown up see through things more, feel that between relatives and relatives is so the matter, will not change with the Chinese New Year walk with each other,A lot of relatives with not close to you is to see your economic conditions decided, the old saying has to have a certain truth: poor in the roadside no one asked, rich in the mountains have distant relatives!When he is poor, relatives generally will not take the initiative to walk with their own, go to relatives, relatives are very disgusted, sometimes it will be very obvious, even if a fool can see, big New Year’s day to face who see it?When you are rich, you do not have to go to relatives, relatives will naturally come to you, even if you live in a cave, as long as you have money, relatives will do everything possible to find out, people are so realistic, I hate the world in my eyes when I grow up…